Ilion Junior-Senior High School’s Letter Home
As I mentioned in a previous post, I’d requested the text of a letter sent to parents of children attending Ilion Junior-Senior High School in Ilion, New York. Principal Renee J. Rudd was kind enough to mail me a copy. I quote it in its entirety:
May 4, 2007
Dear Parents and Guardians:
As you know, the Viriginia Tech incident and the recent anniversary of Columbine bring significant sensitivity to us all. When students make inappropriate comments, threats, or speak of violence in any way, we must expeditiously react to each and every situation. No more are we allowed to tolerate any incident of this nature.
Based upon the report of inappropriate comments, threats, or the potential of violence, we will thoroughly investigate the situation, meet with parents/guardians, and contact the Ilion Police Department. It is no longer acceptable to make a comment and then say, “I was only kidding.”
I respectfully ask parents and guardians to review the following with your son/daughter:
1. If you hear of any inappropriate comment, threat, or act of violence, immediately report the information to [Dean of Students] Mr. [Dale] Turner, Ms. Rudd, a Counselor, or any staff member at school. Be sure to also share the information with parents/guardians as soon as possible.
2. Do not joke of violence, make inappropriate comments, draw pictures, or write threatening notes as this will be taken very seriously.
3. Refrain from the bullying or harassment of any student as this can result in a potentially threatening response. Do not call other students names, make insults, or inappropriate comments about them.
Recently, students have reported situations to the administration whereby Mr. Turner and I have conducted interviews with students, teachers, staff, and parents/guardians. Disciplinary consequences were administered and we have also involved the authorities. Even though students react with the notion of “just fooling around,” it is never a joking matter. We must take each report seriously and give it the same prompt attention.
Should you learn of any potentially concerning incident, please contact my office at 895-7471. Together we can maintain a safe environment for students and staff while keeping the focus on academics. Thank you for your continued support and cooperation.
Sincerely,
[signed]
Renee J. Rudd
Principal
As suspected, this letter contradicts the more public statements that included language like, “gray area,” “not cut and dried,” and no “cookie-cutter answer.” This is zero-tolerance and promises an incredible level of oversight and investigation that make me wonder where there will be much time left over for the proposed “focus on academics.” Where is the understanding that kids are still exploring social behavior, learning what’s appropriate or not?
In fact, I can’t help but think about the way that in elementary school, teachers and parent helpers no longer tell children that they are misbehaving, but instead ask them, “Are you making a good choice right now?” This is supposed to get the child to think about his behavior, conclude that it is not a good choice, and correct himself. The assumption that children will think like this or even have adequate background to evaluate the question is deeply suspect. Fortunately, most kids see through this awkward verbal construction and get the underlying message: “Stop that right now!” After all, no one asks them if they are making a good choice when they are behaving well. Kids need to be able to explore social interaction in the same way they should be exploring knowledge and be able to make mistakes without having their lives torn apart.
The most glaring problems in this letter are the lack of any real definition of “inappropriate” and the all-encompassing nature of the ban, as in “speak of violence in any way.” Consider the following things that are now banned by a strict reading of this policy:
Really, this letter first goes wrong in its very first sentence. Ms. Rudd has assumed that the Virginia Tech incident and the anniversary of Columbine have brought “significant sensitivity to us all.” I would challenge that very basic assumption. What happened at Virginia Tech is likely largely abstract and an aberration to most people, not something they really picture happening because some kids joked about putting the smackdown on their friends. Columbine, much less its anniversary, is almost certainly even more distant in most people’s minds.
Perhaps the school administration should have read the commentary in the original article and followed the advice of their own leadership rather than snapping out a knee-jerk reaction letter establishing an overly expansive and ill-defined policy.




